Written by Tony Gaskins Jr.
|
"If someone doesn't fight to keep you, never fight with yourself to stay. It's better to walk away with a temporary wound than to live with permanent hurt." ~ Unknown quote
What Daddy Never Told His Little Girl
Question: "What are the signs that a boy is playing games with your heart?"
Dear Young Ladies,
Actions always speak louder than words! Any guy can talk a good game but can he walk it? Most guys will play games because they don’t know how to take love or a relationship serious. You can’t really expect a boy to behave like a man so you have to go in knowing that if you get your hopes up he will let you down. It’s just what boys do. Treat boys like an accessory instead of like a necessity and it won’t matter so much anymore what he does or doesn’t do.
Here are some signs that he’s playing with your heart…
If he keeps playing games then let him go. Don’t stress over it and don’t cry about it. Expect a boy to act like a boy and if he acts better than that then appreciate it. If he proves you right then you’ve lost nothing.
Be safe, be smart!
With love,
Tony A. Gaskins Jr.
www.TonyGaskins.com
www.twitter.com/tonygaskins
Dear Young Ladies,
Actions always speak louder than words! Any guy can talk a good game but can he walk it? Most guys will play games because they don’t know how to take love or a relationship serious. You can’t really expect a boy to behave like a man so you have to go in knowing that if you get your hopes up he will let you down. It’s just what boys do. Treat boys like an accessory instead of like a necessity and it won’t matter so much anymore what he does or doesn’t do.
Here are some signs that he’s playing with your heart…
- He doesn’t call every day or even every other day
- He talks about other girls in front of you
- He tries to make you jealous
- He lies to you repeatedly
- He talks a good game but his actions don’t back it up
- He doesn’t respect you in front of his friends
- He doesn’t flaunt you in front of other girls
- He keeps breaking up and making up
If he keeps playing games then let him go. Don’t stress over it and don’t cry about it. Expect a boy to act like a boy and if he acts better than that then appreciate it. If he proves you right then you’ve lost nothing.
Be safe, be smart!
With love,
Tony A. Gaskins Jr.
www.TonyGaskins.com
www.twitter.com/tonygaskins