By Tiffany Terrell
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How to Tell if He is a Liar
If you are like me, you hate being lied too. Although it is good to believe that your relationship is built on trust and honesty, there is a strong possibility that your boyfriend will lie to you at some point. Most liars say they didn’t want to tell you the truth because they didn’t want to hurt you. I think that’s a bunch of bull! There are two different lies, the small “white” and the major lie. The small “white” lie might be something as he claims he called you the other night. The major lie might be something as he claims he did not cheat on you but you have proof that he did. It’s very important that you pay attention to body language and small details. For every lie a person tells, they will have to create two or three more to protect themselves. So they lie more to sound more convincing.
Here are some of the signs that your boyfriend could be lying to you:
Here are some of the signs that your boyfriend could be lying to you:
- He becomes defensive. When someone is being accused of lying, they will usually become defensive. Sometimes they will turn everything around and put it on you.
- He may try to fill in voided space with added information that you did not ask about so they can sound more convincing. This speaks for itself.
- He might fidget a lot. This could happen because he is uncomfortable or nervous about lying to you.
- He is speaking to you but is steady looking away or down. Most people cannot look you in the eye and tell a lie.
- Listen for inconsistencies in his stories. If he tells you one thing today and then says something else two days later, he is lying!